Side-by-Side Till FGM is No Longer a Threat: Abdi’s Fight to Protect His Sister

For over thirteen years, Female Genital Mutilation and Cutting (FGM/C) has been a criminal offense in Kenya. Despite this, the deeply rooted cultural practice continues to pose a significant threat to women and girls in various parts of the country. However, change is happening, driven by efforts to engage communities and shift harmful traditions.

FGM/C involves the partial or total removal of a woman’s or girl’s external genitalia, resulting in devastating physical, mental, and psychological damage. In Kenya alone, over four million women and girls have suffered from this harmful practice. Organisations like ActionAid International Kenya (AAIK) are spearheading efforts to create movements that combat FGM/C, engaging men, women, youth, and children in the fight.

Abdi and his sister Fouzia arrive at school in Kinna, Isiolo County.

A particularly effective strategy AAIK has adopted is the creation of boys’ and girls’ forums in schools across the country. These forums educate students about the dangers of FGM/C and foster a new generation that actively opposes the practice. In Isiolo County, an area where FGM/C remains deeply entrenched, these forums have played a crucial role in shifting attitudes and beliefs among the youth.

One of the most inspiring examples of this change is 10-year-old Abdi from Kinna, Isiolo. Abdi has become an unlikely but passionate advocate against FGM/C, driven by his deep desire to protect his younger sister, Fouzia, from undergoing the brutal procedure. A regular participant in the Boys Forum at Quticha Primary School, Abdi has learned about the harmful consequences of FGM/C and is determined to ensure that his six-year-old sister is never subjected to it.

“I would not want my sister to undergo FGM/C. I have been educated to understand the implications of a girl being cut. If I leave her at home or unattended, the risk of her being forcefully cut by our relatives increases. It would hurt me to see my sister suffer now and, in the future, especially knowing that I can do something to prevent it,” said Abdi.

“Not only do I walk hand-in-hand with Fouzia to school to keep her safe, but I also asked my teachers if they could allow her to stay in school beyond regular hours.” He explained, “Although Fouzia’s school day typically ends at 1:00 p.m., I requested that the teachers let her remain until 4:00 p.m., so we can walk home together after my school day ends at 4:00 p.m.”

Abdi’s actions are a testament to his unwavering commitment. He understands that keeping Fouzia in school will shield her from potential harm. This act of protection has not only strengthened his resolve but has also changed his parents’ views. Seeing Abdi’s dedication, they have joined his cause, pledging to protect Fouzia just as he does. Abdi’s words and actions have empowered his family to make the decision to safeguard Fouzia from harm.

“Seeing the steps our students are taking to ensure that girls do not undergo female genital mutilation and cutting gives us hope that FGM/C will soon be a thing of the past. Abdi’s mother and grandmother have reportedly shunned any discussions about their daughter and granddaughter undergoing FGM/C because Abdi has made it clear that Fouzia will not suffer the cut,” said Mercy Mwangi, a boys and girls forum patron at Quticha Primary School. She added that during the long holidays, Fouzia was not subjected to FGM/C.

Abdi and Fouzia’s Mum, along with her husband, have united to protect her from FGM.

In communities like Kinna, where girls as young as six are often considered ready for FGM/C, Abdi’s actions stand as a powerful example of how education and awareness can empower the younger generation to protect themselves and others from this harmful practice.

Teresa Awili, a Monitoring and Evaluation Officer for the Africa-Led Movement’s The Girl Generation programme, underscores the significance of Abdi’s efforts.

“In such communities, young girls often do not understand the implications of FGM/C and therefore have no means of resisting the pressure to undergo the procedure,” she explains. “But Abdi’s actions, combined with the support of the boys’ and girls’ forums, are helping to change this.”

Abdi’s story serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative power of education and engagement with young people in the fight against FGM/C. His unwavering determination to protect his sister, even at the expense of his own comfort, highlights not only his strength of character but also the profound potential for young people to inspire meaningful change within their communities.

Abdi conversing with his sister Fouzia at school in Kinna, Isiolo County.

Through initiatives like the boys’ and girls’ forums, AAIK is fostering a generation of children and young adults who are not only aware of the dangers of FGM/C but also equipped with the knowledge and confidence to challenge harmful traditions. With champions like Abdi, there is hope that FGM/C will one day be a thing of the past in Kenya.

Author: Teresa Awili, Monitoring and Evaluation Officer Africa-Led Movement’s The Girl Generation Programme, ActionAid Kenya.    Edited by Ezra Kiriago ,Communications Coordinator ActionAid Kenya.